WHERE HEALTHY DATING CAN TAKE YOU

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WHERE HEALTHY DATING CAN TAKE YOU ☁️

Kopi Date Couples

A candid conversation with Iman & Alexandra

Kopi Date is committed to supporting singles with the clarity and mindset needed to build healthy, lasting relationships.

Welcome to Beyond the Brew, where we share heartfelt stories from the Kopi Date community — real journeys, real people, and the meaningful connections formed through intentional dating in Singapore. 🤎

Couple Profile

First Kopi Date:

July 20, 2024

Open-mindedness
They embraced the unknown, allowing space for unexpected common ground to emerge.

Authenticity
Both showed up as themselves, creating a safe space to be seen and accepted.

Core values
Instead of surface-level traits, they connected on shared philosophies and life approaches.

Words of wisdom: Relationships are a choice

Love isn’t about chasing perfection, it’s about choosing to grow together, over and over again.

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Dating for Long-Term Relationship Kopi Date

Walk us through your first date together!

Iman: I got to the café early — mostly to manage my nerves. The waitress signaled that my date had arrived. She was immersed in marking papers, grabbing a quick bite (toast, if I remember right).

That moment felt oddly grounding. I was still feeling unsettled, navigating through the Raffles Place crowd, and there she was, juggling her own responsibilities and carving out time for this Kopi Date.

Over dinner — crab linguine and a cheese platter — the conversation naturally flowed. Eventually, I suggested drinks. As the evening went on, it felt easier to open up.

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Alexandra: That day was really long and tiring for me. I arrived early too, not to impress, but to finish up work before the date started. I wasn’t sure how I’d find the energy to connect with someone new.

Usually, meeting strangers drains my social battery. But I’ve been trying to stay open-minded while exploring dating in Singapore through Kopi Date.

It turned out I didn’t need to worry. Iman was honest and open from the start, which made it easy for me to just listen and be present. His sincerity made me feel at ease. Through that openness, I realised we had a lot in common, even down to how we viewed life.

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“The one is someone you consciously choose.”

IMAN

How was the Kopi Date experience different from other dating platforms?

Iman - My track record with traditional dating apps has been poor, too many dead-end conversations that never led to actual dates. What I appreciated about Kopi Date is that it skips the small talk and gets you to an in-person connection, without the pressure to fake it.

Alexandra: Same here. Despite hearing success stories from friends using dating apps, my own experiences weren’t that great. What stood out about Kopi Date was the thoughtful curation. It wasn’t just random matches, the alignment of interests and personality really made a difference.

Advice to others thinking of joining Kopi Date!

Iman: I don’t believe in the idea of “the one” as some perfect person you find. It’s about conscious choice. You choose someone, and keep choosing them, through life’s ups and downs. That’s what dating for long-term relationship means to me.

Alexandra: Keep an open mind. It’s okay to have a mental checklist, but focus on the things that actually matter, like whether you share similar values and approaches to life. The rest? Nice to have, but not essential. At the end of the day, relationships thrive on communication and the willingness to meet halfway.

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Beatrix & Jeremy

I never came into Kopi Date thinking of it as just another dating platform. We were both committed to growth, willing to do the work early, that's what made the difference.
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Kopi Date shifted how I see relationships and dating overall. It opened up new perspectives and helped me understand myself better in the process.
Iman & Alexandra

In any relationship, it comes down to honest communication and learning how to meet each other halfway.
Zach & Serena

Big shoutout to the amazing KD team, their thoughtful curation and care made all the difference. No regrets, just gratitude!