The world’s first dating experience designed to lead to healthy relationships.
No dating frustrations | No toxic relationships
WHAT IS A KOPI DATE?
Not a dating app.
Not a matchmaking agency.
(Nor another mass dating event).
Curated coffee dates with real guidance for singles to build healthy relationships.
Modern Dating sets us up for failure.
You put yourself out there hoping for something real: swiping, meeting people, starting conversations.
But today’s dating culture makes that feel impossible.
Meeting people is hard enough.
Connections die before they even begin.
Conversations fizzle out without warning.
When you finally land a date,
it feels more like an interview than a real connection.
And if you do make it into a relationship,
conflicts arise, and it all ends in heartbreak.
We’re left with plenty of experiences,
but no real growth.
After enough trying, we’re back to the cycle of unfulfilling relationships.
But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Dating should be simple.
This is how you go from single to a healthy relationship.
A no-nonsense path.
Step 1:
Know exactly what you’re getting into
Get clear on what a healthy relationship actually takes.
Step 2: Go on a curated coffee (Kopi) date
Meet someone thoughtfully curated, in real life, over coffee.
Step 3:
Be curious, tuck your checklist, embrace human connections.
Let conversations flow, and see where connection takes you.
Step 4:
Have fun. Let your hair down, flirt, make mistakes, feel nervous.
Have courage to say: “I would love to see you again.”
Step 5:
Go on a second, third, fourth date.
Depth takes time—lean in and build from where you left off.
Attend a court hearing,
People-watch by the river,
Go for a hike.
Step 6:
Discover new emotional connections.
Share stories, values, and the quiet parts of yourself.
Step 7:
Discover new differences.
Notice the gaps, not as red flags—but as an acknowledgment of one other’s uniqueness.
Step 8:
Communicate & overcome differences.
Learn how to talk about the hard stuff without walking away.
Step 9:
Choose to commit.
Not a fairy tale moment, but a conscious decision to grow together.
Step 10:
Build your couples identity.
Embrace the Journey; Love, fight and grow…
Together.
Kopi Date Couple
We built a relationship platform for singles.
And it worked!
The experience everyone is raving about!
‘Kopi Date emphasises humanising connections and creating authentic connections… transforming new age dating by paving way for singles to build healthy relationships.’
“Forget swiping, this S'pore startup revives old school dating with conversations over coffee”
“Kopi Date hits a sweet spot”
How is Kopi Date different?
Here’s what our members say:
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Beatrix & Jeremy
I think in today’s dating scene where everyone is so focused on finding the “one true love” (yikes), Kopi Date is keeping it real and allowing for curiosity.
Kopi Date excels in providing a space for good conversations to happen!
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Kathy & Jun Hui
Kopi Date has helped to improve my views on relationships and dating as a whole, providing me with various perspectives that helped me reflect better on myself.
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Iman & Alexandra
Hadn’t had much success with other platforms despite friends sharing their success stories using online dating apps. Kopi Date does curation and that helps in the whole process as there’s a [consideration] of interests and personalities.
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Zhen Yu & Jolene
To know someone with zero expectations going in; without texting or having in-depth knowledge about the other party, allows you to go in without any judgment.
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Zach & Serena
Kudos and shout out to the awesome KD team for their dedication to ensure a pleasant curation and user experience. Absolutely no regrets!
A conversation with Jolene & Zhen Yu
We give you an insight into members of the Kopi Date community and the wonderful connections they have formed. 🤎 Let us introduce you Jolene and Zhen Yu whose friendship blossomed into a relationship. We really can’t get enough of their chemistry and stories, that in our eyes are just the right amount of creepy 👀
So now we’re having a cuppa to find out more about their Kopi Date story ☕
A world-class support team, who cares. Rated 4.9/5 stars by current members.
Welcoming you with our one-of-a-kind onboarding experience:
The Kopi Date Brew
Our team’s goal is aligned with yours — to create more healthy, long-term relationships.
We do that by building a healthy relationship with you first.
How Kopi Date works
A simple 2 step process gets you to the most thoughtful and liberating experience ever. View handbook ↗
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The Kopi Date Brew
Hop on a casual chat with us to celebrate your story, and what makes you unique!
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Coffee is served
Meet your Kopi date and enjoy a great conversation over coffee.
A brave new world of dating
Say goodbye to meaningless texting. Behold, authentic conversations await.
We’d be lying if we said:
“Dating and relationships are easy.”
No, this is hard work.
So we built an all-in-one platform that has helped 30,000 singles — and you too!
Transparent Pricing
Healthy Dating should be for
everyone.
Typical matchmaking agency:
$3200 - $6300 (No guaranteed dates).
Kopi Date:
From $70 per date experience
(In memberships plans of 3,6,12).
Transparent Pricing
Healthy Dating should be for
everyone.
Typical matchmaking agency:
$3200 - $6300 (No guaranteed dates).
Kopi Date:
From $60 per date experience
(In memberships plans of 3,6,12).
Let the great conversations roll!
Kopi Date offers the easiest, most stress-free way to meet interesting people. Leave the work to us and take swiping off your to-do list.
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Save >10 hours a week from meaningless texting and swiping
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Authenticity through face to face interactions
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Receive personal growth content through our membership program
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Go on affordable dates more often
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Engage in conversations and fun activities
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Discover unique cafes around Singapore
Get your FREE Personalised Dating Roadmap
Let’s humanise dating!
Whether you'd like to expand your social circle or step out of your comfort zone, Kopi Date offers exciting ways to meet interesting people in the most authentic setting.
Adventure awaits!
Building a healthier dating culture over the years
A labour of love for healthy dating
& relationships
Over the past five years, our team has gone through the painstaking process of building a dating experience that’s actually good for you.
We’ve spoken with over 5,000 singles, interviewed hundreds of relationship experts, and trialled and iterated our approach with real results and successes.
Why do singles need a healthy dating platform?
Well, it’s because you and your future relationships deserve more – authentic connections, emotional well-being, and intentional dating that enriches your life.
To meet others as intentional as you.
To be healthier, emotionally.
To feel more alive day to day.
To journey through life with meaning and purpose.
We’re the only platform that tells you the reality of dating and relationships.
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Kopi Date is proudly independent.
We are passionate about celebrating what makes us human – from intentional first dates to mindful parenting and graceful ageing.
Kopi Date is the first step for singles, with more to come. Join us in building relationships that make every moment meaningful.
FREE! Healthy Dating Guide
Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life.
Kopi Date’s Healthy Dating Guide is designed to help singles date healthily and build long-term, fulfilling relationships.