Offline dating for
Healthy, grounded relationships
Mindful dating experience designed for growth-minded individuals
📱 Skip swiping & texting
🌱 Research-based approach
⏱️ Waste no time
👥 Meet with authenticity
Modern Dating sets us up for failure.
You put yourself out there hoping for something real: swiping, meeting people, starting conversations.
But today’s dating culture makes that feel impossible.
Meeting people is hard enough.
Connections die before they even begin.
Conversations fizzle out without warning.
When you finally land a date,
it feels more like an interview than a real connection.
And if you do make it into a relationship,
conflicts arise, and it all ends in heartbreak.
We’re left with plenty of experiences,
but no real growth.
After enough trying, we’re back to the cycle of unfulfilling relationships.
But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Dating should be simple.
Proven formula for success
If dating has been falling short, you’ve been missing some key components. Experience a holistic dating system like no other.
Healthy dating creates the most resilient & fulfilling relationships.
Not a dating app.
Not a matchmaking agency.
Since 2018, we brought over 30,000 incredible people to a healthier dating landscape.
More than just dates
A network of systems that create conditions for success.
Focus on personal growth and self-awareness
Dating with the right perspective and a reframed mindset.
Connections over superficiality.
Personalised curation based on who you truly are. No algorithms.
The most complete
dating platform
Because dating is more than just meeting people.
From amazing first dates to engaging in self-reflections, receiving actionable insights through personalised feedback and more.
Feel the Kopi Date difference
✓ Enhanced connections
✓ Greater self-understanding and mental clarity
✓ Stronger emotional awareness
✓ Increased relationship knowledge
✓ A stronger foundation for healthy relationships
Higher chance of success:
🎉 Kopi Date
Success Stories
A hassle-free experience for working professionals
Kopi Date offers the easiest, most stress-free way to meet interesting people. Leave the work to us and take swiping off your to-do list 🚀
Celebrating individuality
We celebrate what makes you, you! We’ll use this information to help curate the best dates for you.
A curated community
Every member is curated, screened and personally onboarded to ensure the best fit for our community.
Focus on great conversations
Our experiences are designed to enable meaningful connection through conversation.
Affordable
Explore new cafes and meet new people without breaking the bank.
Save >10 hours a week on dating apps
Say goodbye to fake profiles, endless swiping & meaningless texting.
Authenticity & intention
Our members value genuine connection over superficial exchanges.
A guided journey
We’re available on WhatsApp and email for any membership or date enquiries.
Simplicity and mindfulness
A casual setting that prioritises enjoyable journey over rigid destination.
Personal Growth
Receive monthly personal growth content to learn more about yourself.
Protect your
future relationship.
We think long-term.
We nurture your dating journey through self-discovery and growth.
Modern dating is broken.
You go on date after date, but each one ends in disappointment, leaving you right where you started.
What we do for you
The Ultimate Dating Pack, all in one platform
- Like-minded individuals
- Space to process & reflect
- Accountability and support
- Streamlined dating experience
- Safe and secure environment
- Continuous personal development
Kopi Date members are 92% more likely to find a healthy, long-term relationship.
Your accelerated path to a healthy, grounded relationship.
How it works
The Kopi Date Experience
Join our curated community
Fill in the application form to begin your Kopi Date adventure. Join our thoughtfully-curated community, made up with incredible people who value meaningful connections, and seek great conversations.
We get to know you
Hop on a casual chat with us to as we get to know you and find out what makes you unique. It’s like a mini-documentary where we celebrate your individuality!
We thoughtfully curate a date for you
We curate the most amazing first date with great conversations and connection as an end goal in mind.
We organise everything
We partner with centrally-located cafe experiences you'll love. Plus you'll get an Experience Kit for thought-provoking questions to ask and a special itinerary planned so you have everything you need for your a great first date.
A personalised experience
Enjoyed the date? Let us know as we take into consideration of your feedback from your post-date review for a more personalised experience your upcoming adventures!
Personalised Feedback
Gain actionable insights from your past Kopi Dates. Recognise your strengths and identify your blind spots. Join us for a Bar Chat* to track your progress and offer ongoing support.
*Bar Chat is a casual way for our Delight Team to provide you with useful tips and feedback while also lending a listening ear to your experiences. We recently launched a Bar Chat for all new members at Kopi Date after their first Kopi Date Experience. We are also extending it to all current members too!
Notice the Kopi Date difference
Disconnected and overwhelmed
Frustrated with dating apps
Boring, unfulfilling dates
✓ Energised and connected
✓ Clear, meaningful connections
✓ Exciting, purposeful dates
Kopi Dates in action 📸
Backed by resilient couples, designed for singles.
Growth-minded individuals
Who is Kopi Date for?
If you're growth-minded and enjoy great conversations, Kopi Date is for you. Join a community seeking genuine connections.
A safe environment
Kopi Date promotes a positive and safe environment for everyone to enjoy. Enjoy thoughtfully-curated coffee dates at our unique partner spaces.
Your shortcut
to better dates
Join our growing community of social adventurers who have made over 34,823 real connections through Kopi Date.
“I mean - WOW! I’m surprised how simple it is to get connected with interesting people. They do everything for you, you just have to show up and enjoy! KD is the best social membership ever."
Audrey W.
Project Manager
“The dating apps, bio-datas & shady dot coms were not for me! I’ve been on a couple of dates, and everything - from the onboarding session, ease of date coordination, and most importantly to the person sitting across me, has been a great experience!”
Min Yi G.,
Graphic Designer
“Kopi Date is a safe and comfortable way to meet new people. It’s a unique opportunity to connect with someone new.”
Christian G.
Software Engineer
“My date was a great conversationalist and he was very open to share his experience and opinions! There weren’t any awkward silences. The community is discerning and well-curated.”
Nicolette T.
Data Analyst
The people you may meet
‡ A UX consultant with an interest in hiking and hosting awesome dinner parties
‡ A teacher with a deep-seated passion for sustainability and social change
‡ An entrepreneur, lover of IPA beers and fiction novels
‡ A fresh Communications graduate who loves solo travelling and sci-fi films
A social membership.
Endless great conversations.
Enjoy 30% OFF (Limited time offer ⏰)
From $70/ credit
U.P. $100/ credit
☆☆☆☆☆ Loved by 10,000+ members
Our curious, bold and diverse community of incredible people have a confident approach to life. They value meaningful connections, and are looking for great conversations.
Curated
community
Simple
No fake profiles. No endless swiping. Your personal details and picture are never shared with other members before your date, where you decide how much you'd like share.
The idea is to be yourself and get to know your date in an authentic setting. You can exchange numbers if you like, date for months, or simply move on to your next date. You're in control.
Pressure-free
How do we compare?
We looked for dating solutions and found a system that was inefficient, and outdated. So we got to work creating an entirely new approach for the modern human 💛
FREE! Healthy Dating Guide
Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life.
Kopi Date’s Healthy Dating Guide is designed to help singles date healthily and build long-term, fulfilling relationships.
FAQs
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Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life. At Kopi Date, we believe in the importance of cultivating resilient relationships, starting with the dating process. Our focus on personal growth and fostering meaningful connections ensures that our members have the tools and resources they need to create long-term, fulfilling relationships.
Kopi Date curates offline coffee dates built on growth and introspection for singles to enter healthy relationships.
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Kopi Date is for the curious, the bold, the different. If you're someone who values open-mindedness, personal growth, and building genuine connections, we would love for you to join us at Kopi Date.
We believe that a warm, slow-brewed conversation over a cup of coffee is the perfect setting to foster these types of connections.
Of course, we understand that our community might not be for everyone. If you're not looking for just a casual quick fling, that's okay too. But if you're ready to explore a more fulfilling and genuine approach to dating, we would love to have you join our community at Kopi Date.
So, come as you are and let's explore the world of authentic connections, one cup of coffee at a time.
Learn more about Who is Kopi Date For?
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It’s simple!
1. Sign up to be part of the Kopi Date Community.
2. Once you’re in, unlock the curation form by adding your card.
3. Celebrate your individuality through a fun onboarding call and receive good news about your Kopi Date from our Kopi Artisans within 1-8 weeks.
4. Head down for your first anonymous dating experience at our partnered concept spaces and share your adventures on your socials!
5. Conclude your date with us through a quick review as the Kopi Date team curates your next (even better) adventure! ☕
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Yes, Kopi Date is a paid service. Our mission to help our members succeed in relationships and our paid service ensures no compromises on quality- that people who join us are looking for the same thing too!
The membership starts from $70/credit.
It covers one Kopi Date Experience a month (curation and concierge services, the date venue booking, a complimentary beverage during the date, and the Kopi Date Experience Kit). You will just be responsible for turning up with your authentic self!
Memberships are on a 12-credits basis (39% off) with exciting perks (Surprise activity dates, top priority curation, active personalised learning for improved curation, exclusive monthly personal growth content and white glove service).
6-credits (22% off) and 3-credits are available without above perks.
Why should I pay to date?
Because you’re fast-tracking the experience. You can keep spending time figuring it out on your own or invest in something that gives you everything at once. Your time is valuable! Why spend years when you can move forward now? -
At Kopi Date, we encourage our community to embark on their dates with an open mind and a great setting to have wonderful conversations. Tossing your checklist can help you open up to meeting people with characteristics that you might surprisingly vibe with - and qualities that can inspire long-term relationships such as loyalty, kindness, emotional stability, good communication and a growth mindset!
Kopi Date encourages members to approach each date with an open mind. After all, connections often develop in places we don’t expect.
Having said that, we do take into account your comments during the ‘Concluding-the-Date Review' to create a more personalised experience (it’ll be a great place to let us know on how you can have better experiences). However, please reach out to us if you have any absolute limits!
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