The most authentic first date experience

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Kopi Date membership offers thoughtful monthly experiences that make meeting new people and dating a fun part of your life.

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How it works

The Kopi Date Experience

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Join our curated community

Fill in the application form to begin your Kopi Date adventure. Join our thoughtfully-curated community, made up with incredible people who value meaningful connections, and seek great conversations.

We get to know you

Hop on a casual chat with us to as we get to know you and find out what makes you unique. It’s like a mini-documentary where we celebrate your individuality!

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We thoughtfully curate a date for you

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We curate the most amazing first date with great conversations and connection as an end goal in mind.

We organise everything

We partner with centrally-located cafe experiences you'll love. Plus you'll get an Experience Kit for thought-provoking questions to ask and a special itinerary planned so you have everything you need for your a great first date.

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A personalised experience

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Enjoyed the date? Let us know as we take into consideration of your feedback from your post-date review for a more personalised experience your upcoming adventures!

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Personalised Feedback

Gain actionable insights from your past Kopi Dates. Recognise your strengths and identify your blind spots. Join us for a Bar Chat* to track your progress and offer ongoing support.

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*Bar Chat is a casual way for our Delight Team to provide you with useful tips and feedback while also lending a listening ear to your experiences. We recently launched a Bar Chat for all new members at Kopi Date after their first Kopi Date Experience. We are also extending it to all current members too!

Our membership plans

Choose a plan that suits you.

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12 Credit

Our best value at 30% OFF.
Billed yearly at $840, $70/credit!

Full perks:

✓ 12 Kopi Date Experience
✓ Every date a unique experience
(cafe & experience kit)
✓ Unlimited pausing
(getting to know past dates, travelling)
✓ Personalised feedback report
✓ Transferable date credits

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6 Credit

At 15% OFF. Billed every 6 months at $534, $89/credit.

✓ 6 Kopi Date Experience
✓ Every date a unique experience
(cafe & experience kit)
✓ 4 months pausing
✓ Personalised feedback report

3 Credit

Billed every 3 months at $345, $115/credit.

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✓ 3 Kopi Date Experience
✓ Limited new experiences
(may go on repeated date concept experiences)

All plans are billed upfront.
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FAQ

  • Kopi Date was founded on the idea of change. Our idea is to humanise connections in an overly digitised world. We want to create the most authentic offline dating experience for singles.

  • Warm, slow brew over meaningful exchanges. Getting lost in conversation. The art of finding yourself—in getting to know someone new. Every Kopi Date is thoughtfully-curated, an experience designed for simple, genuine connections in person.

    Our approach is simple.

    At Kopi Date, we celebrate you–what makes you human and unique. We learn more about your you and your story and curate the most amazing first date with great conversations as an end goal in mind.

    So while your Kopi Dates are a potential for something life-changing to bloom, we hope it will also start new conversations, your path of learning and self-discovery, and new adventures.

    Learn more here ↗

  • We encourage singles of all ages to sign up! However, as we’d like all of our members to have quality experiences, we would only enrol members who will have the best experience at Kopi Date!

  • Your date location is a surprise and will be revealed 2-3 days before your date through email. Kopi Dates are held at our partner venues, each with their own unique concept. These locations have been carefully curated to provide the best first date experiences.

  • If you’re facing technical issue with signing up, kindly use Incognito mode on desktop or mobile browser.

    WhatsApp us for assistance!

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Meet interesting people & form real connections

Explore our diverse community of fascinating individuals from different backgrounds and discover what makes them amazing over a cup of coffee.

Our experiences are thoughtfully-curated and designed for simple, genuine connections in person.

Connect, converse and live life in the most authentic setting.

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  • With Kopi Date, there is no room for endless mind games through texting; there is no complex and pressurizing process aiming to get you settled down.

    Instead, our members get the chance to simply learn about each other without games or expectations, building human connections by sharing parts of themselves.

  • Kopi Date is proud to call itself Singapore's people connectors, with the aim of shaping a new culture of meeting people.

    The Kopi Date community has a unique focus on conversation and connection between individuals, something that seems increasingly forgotten and forsaken by our fast-paced, digitally-driven world.

    At Kopi Date, we support our members in discovering the fascinating stories of others while simultaneously learning more about themselves.

  • Kopi Date will neither leave you fumbling on your own like dating apps, nor get overly involved, serious and rigid about your love life.

    We strip away excessive pressure (of asking someone to meet in person, or deciding where to go, or figuring out what to say) by setting up the first date environment.

    We provide the Kopi Date Experience Kit, which will guide you through building conversation with your date. We lay the groundwork, then leave you to create your connection.

‘A liberating experience’

Our Kopi Date Experiences are fine-tuned to provide an optimal environment for genuine human connections.

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Human-centred experience

Kopi Date is a social platform, where singles have the chance to meet new people and form rich and deep connections.

We offer each date as a unique experience and opportunity for something life-changing to bloom. With open minds, zero expectations and mutual authenticity, our members are ready to once again humanise the dating process.

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Let the great conversations roll!

Kopi Date values meaningful and mindful conversation, paving the way for you to connect with your date.

With our Kopi Date Experience kit, share what you really think, and revel in an environment created especially for you.

Every date an adventure

Every Kopi Date delivers a one-of-a-kind experience at our unique partner cafes. Beyond our signature experience, revel in play with our unique date concepts–did someone say ‘Grocery Dates’? 😉

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