Dating for

Healthy, grounded relationships

START DATING

Meet amazing people & enjoy great conversations!

⏱️ WASTE NO TIME 📱 SKIP SWIPING & TEXTING

🎉 Kopi Date 
Success Stories

couplestestimonialkd-01.png
couplestestimonialkd-02.png
couplestestimonialkd-03.png
couplestestimonialkd-04.png
couplestestimonialkd-05.png
couplestestimonialkd-06.png

Kopi Date’s
Healthy Dating System

Infographic titled "Reverse-engineering great relationships for singles dating" with three sections: Exploration (Meet people in a healthy way), Clarity (Engage in deep introspection for self-awareness), Growth (Build strong relationship skills). Bottom text: "Intentional dating, growth-minded, fuss-free."
MarcellaxKopiDate-ezgif.com-video-to-gif-converter 2.gif
IMG_1605-ezgif.com-video-to-gif-converter 2.gif
marcellajeffersonkdd.gif
valerieshawnkd.gif
nicolekopidatee.gif
dancevalerieshawn.gif

A hassle-free experience for working professionals

Kopi Date offers the easiest, most stress-free way to meet interesting people. Leave the work to us and take swiping off your to-do list 🚀

Celebrating individuality
We celebrate what makes you, you! We’ll use this information to help curate the best dates for you.

Line drawing of two hands in a fist bump with radiating lines indicating celebration or agreement.

A curated community
Every member is curated, screened and personally onboarded to ensure the best fit for our community.

Gold-colored seal with a checkmark in the center.

Focus on great conversations
Our experiences are designed to enable meaningful connection through conversation.

Two overlapping chat bubble icons, one with three dots indicating typing, in beige and black colors.

Affordable
Explore new cafes and meet new people without breaking the bank.

Icon of a steaming hot cup of coffee or tea.

Save >10 hours a week on dating apps
Say goodbye to fake profiles, endless swiping & meaningless texting.

Simple icon of an hourglass in gold color.

Authenticity & intention
Our members value genuine connection over superficial exchanges.

Outline of a sprouting plant with two leaves emerging from the ground, on a black background.

A guided journey
We’re available on WhatsApp and email for any membership or date enquiries.

Outline of a human head with a heart shape inside the brain area, representing love or emotional well-being.

Simplicity and mindfulness
A casual setting that prioritises enjoyable journey over rigid destination.

Icon of a light bulb with rays emanating from it, symbolizing an idea or illumination.

Personal Growth
Receive monthly personal growth content to learn more about yourself.

Icon of an open book with lines of text and a pen writing on it.
JOIN NOW

Modern dating is broken.

Diagram listing 10 fitness benefits of dancing, with an overlay of a woman in a leopard print leotard dancing, arms outstretched and smiling.

You go on date after date, but each one ends in disappointment, leaving you right where you started.

Kopi Date members are 92% more likely to find a healthy, long-term relationship.

Your accelerated path to a healthy, grounded relationship.

Side-by-side images of two women; the woman on the left has long, dark hair pulled back and is looking at a smartphone; the woman on the right has short, light brown hair and is smiling while drinking coffee from a black mug.

Notice the Kopi Date difference

  • Disconnected and overwhelmed

  • Frustrated with dating apps

  • Boring, unfulfilling dates

✓ Energised and connected

✓ Clear, meaningful connections

✓ Exciting, purposeful dates

Text stating 'Singapore's top platform for a healthy dating experience' with a gold badge that reads 'Top Brand High Quality' on the left side.
A man and woman are sitting on a couch, having a conversation while holding coffee mugs. The man is wearing a black hat and a green jacket with a white shirt, and the woman is dressed in a white blouse. They are smiling and making eye contact against a plain white wall background.

How it works

The Kopi Date Experience

Hand holding a pink coffee cup with a black lid and a label that says 'KOPF DATE' against a pink background.
A young person with short dark hair, glasses, and earrings, smiling and sitting on a bench against a plain wall. They are wearing a denim jacket and a colorful, patterned button-up shirt.

Join our curated community

Fill in the application form to begin your Kopi Date adventure. Join our thoughtfully-curated community, made up with incredible people who value meaningful connections, and seek great conversations.

We get to know you

Hop on a casual chat with us to as we get to know you and find out what makes you unique. It’s like a mini-documentary where we celebrate your individuality!

Laptop screen showing a video call with three women, one in a video window and two others in smaller windows, with a background of a celebratory screen with confetti and the words 'Congratulations' and 'Personalized welcome page, cute'.

We thoughtfully curate a date for you

Partial view of a street scene with two people, a woman on the right and a man on the left, standing outdoors near white buildings with balconies during daytime.

We curate the most amazing first date with great conversations and connection as an end goal in mind.

We organise everything

We partner with centrally-located cafe experiences you'll love. Plus you'll get an Experience Kit for thought-provoking questions to ask and a special itinerary planned so you have everything you need for your a great first date.

Two people, a man and a woman, wearing face masks and dressed casually, standing indoors in a museum or gallery with white walls and large windows.

A personalised experience

Shelf in a grocery store with various coffee date products, including coffee cups, yogurt containers, and egg cartons.

Enjoyed the date? Let us know as we take into consideration of your feedback from your post-date review for a more personalised experience your upcoming adventures!

Screenshot of a video call showing a smiling woman with long dark hair and a man with short light hair, sitting in a room with bookshelves and plants.

Personalised Feedback

Gain actionable insights from your past Kopi Dates. Recognise your strengths and identify your blind spots. Join us for a Bar Chat* to track your progress and offer ongoing support.

GET STARTED

*Bar Chat is a casual way for our Delight Team to provide you with useful tips and feedback while also lending a listening ear to your experiences. We recently launched a Bar Chat for all new members at Kopi Date after their first Kopi Date Experience. We are also extending it to all current members too!

Kopi Dates in action 📸

Backed by resilient couples, designed for singles.

@kopidate Join Shawn & Valerie on their Kopi Date ❤️ Kopi Date is a social platform, where singles have the chance to meet new people and form rich and deep connections. Sign up now and enjoy thoughtfully-curated 1:1 dates ✨ #kopidate #datinginsingapore #notadatingapp #intentionaldating ♬ original sound - Kopi Date
@kopidate Join Joylene & Ryan on their Kopi Date ❤️ Kopi Date is a singles' dating platform, paving the way for healthy, grounded relationships. Sign up now and enjoy thoughtfully-curated 1:1 dates ✨ #kopidate #datinginsingapore #notadatingapp #intentionaldating ♬ original sound - Kopi Date
@kopidate Dealing with the mind games of dating apps can be exhausting, right? 😖 At Kopi Date, we’re all about personal growth and real connections—no swiping required. Tag along with Riqqah as a simple coffee date turns into a moment of self-discovery and fresh insights into building strong, lasting relationships 💛 #kopidate #datinginsingapore #notadatingapp ♬ original sound - Kopi Date
A woman and a man sitting at a table in a coffee shop, with the woman smiling and holding a drink, and the man holding a smartphone. There are large windows and shelves with products in the background.

It’s time to start meeting new people

Begin your healthy dating experience…

Kopi Date offers casual coffee dates, making it easy to expand your social circle and have authentic conversations.

Sign up

Growth-minded individuals

Who is Kopi Date for?

A young woman with long dark hair wearing a striped tank top and denim overalls, smiling and covering her mouth with her hand, sitting at a coffee shop table with two iced coffee drinks with straws in front of her.

If you're growth-minded and enjoy great conversations, Kopi Date is for you. Join a community seeking genuine connections.

Get started

A safe environment

Kopi Date promotes a positive and safe environment for everyone to enjoy. Enjoy thoughtfully-curated coffee dates at our unique partner spaces.

Sign up
A man and woman sitting across from each other at a table in a coffee shop, both holding iced drinks and engaged in conversation, with a large window behind them.

Not a dating app.
Not a matchmaking agency.

Kopi Date curates offline coffee dates built on growth & introspection for singles to enter healthy relationships.

Since 2018, we brought over 30,000 incredible people together on coffee dates.

2 cities Available in Singapore & Sydney

Line drawing of three high-rise buildings near water with waves at the bottom.

50,000+ curated Kopi Dates

A coffee machine dispensing coffee into two cups.

4.8 ⭐️ Google Reviews ratings

A speech bubble with three stars and a thumbs-up icon below it.
A young woman with long brown hair wearing a cream-colored shirt standing against a blurred yellow and green background.
A young man standing outdoors in front of a reflective glass surface, carrying a backpack and holding a laptop, wearing earphones, green jacket, and light-colored pants.

Your shortcut
to better dates

Join our growing community of social adventurers who have made over 22,832 real connections through Kopi Date.

Two people sitting at a table in a café or restaurant, engaged in conversation, with a large window showing trees and an overpass outside.
A white ceramic cup of cappuccino with latte art on top, placed on a matching light blue saucer on a wooden table.
Close-up of a restaurant menu on a dark wooden table.

“I mean - WOW! I’m surprised how simple it is to get connected with interesting people. They do everything for you, you just have to show up and enjoy! KD is the best social membership ever."

Audrey W.
Project Manager

“The dating apps, bio-datas & shady dot coms were not for me! I’ve been on a couple of dates, and everything - from the onboarding session, ease of date coordination, and most importantly to the person sitting across me, has been a great experience!”

Min Yi G.,
Graphic Designer

Glass storefront with reflection of trees and floor patterns inside a cafe or store with a sign that says "Bents Butterflies" and a subtitle "I'm here!!!" at the bottom.

“Kopi Date is a safe and comfortable way to meet new people. It’s a unique opportunity to connect with someone new.”

Christian G.
Software Engineer

“My date was a great conversationalist and he was very open to share his experience and opinions! There weren’t any awkward silences. The community is discerning and well-curated.”

Nicolette T.
Data Analyst

The people you may meet

Collage of seven black and white portraits of diverse young adults, some smiling or laughing, with one holding a guitar and another in a casual setting.

‡ A UX consultant with an interest in hiking and hosting awesome dinner parties

‡ A teacher with a deep-seated passion for sustainability and social change

‡ An entrepreneur, lover of IPA beers and fiction novels

‡ A fresh Communications graduate who loves solo travelling and sci-fi films

JOIN KOPI DATE
Three coffee cups and a membership card arranged on concrete blocks against a plain background. The membership card reads 'The Kopi Date Membership' with graphics of plants.

A social membership.
Endless great conversations.

Enjoy 30% OFF (Limited time offer ⏰)
From $70/ credit
U.P. $100/ credit

☆☆☆☆☆ Loved by 30,000+ members

Our curious, bold and diverse community of incredible people have a confident approach to life. They value meaningful connections, and are looking for great conversations.

A woman performing a gymnastics leap with arms and legs extended against a colorful abstract backdrop.

Curated
community

A butterfly perched on the edge of a white coffee cup filled with dark coffee, placed on a matching saucer against a black background.

Simple

No fake profiles. No endless swiping. Your personal details and picture are never shared with other members before your date, where you decide how much you'd like share.

A man and a woman dancing and holding hands, both smiling and appearing joyful.

Pressure-free

The idea is to be yourself and get to know your date in an authentic setting. You can exchange numbers if you like, date for months, or simply move on to your next date. You're in control.

JOIN KOPI DATE
Image displaying various media logos, including Google with a 4.8-star rating, The Straits Times, CNA, Vulcan Post, The Business Times, Her World, Tech in Asia, Accelerating Asia, and another logo with Asian characters.

How do we compare?

Comparison chart of online dating apps, Kopi Date, and matchmaking agencies, outlining pricing, features, target audience, community quality, experience, motivation, and support.

We looked for dating solutions and found a system that was inefficient, and outdated. So we got to work creating an entirely new approach for the modern human 💛

FAQs

A woman in a leopard-print leotard performing a dance leap with her arms outstretched.

  • Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life. At Kopi Date, we believe in the importance of cultivating resilient relationships, starting with the dating process. Our focus on personal growth and fostering meaningful connections ensures that our members have the tools and resources they need to create long-term, fulfilling relationships.

    Kopi Date curates offline coffee dates built on growth and introspection for singles to enter healthy relationships.

  • Kopi Date is for the curious, the bold, the different. If you're someone who values open-mindedness, personal growth, and building genuine connections, we would love for you to join us at Kopi Date.

    We believe that a warm, slow-brewed conversation over a cup of coffee is the perfect setting to foster these types of connections.

    Of course, we understand that our community might not be for everyone. If you're not looking for just a casual quick fling, that's okay too. But if you're ready to explore a more fulfilling and genuine approach to dating, we would love to have you join our community at Kopi Date.

    So, come as you are and let's explore the world of authentic connections, one cup of coffee at a time.

    Learn more about Who is Kopi Date For?

  • It’s simple!

    1. Sign up to be part of the Kopi Date Community.

    2. Once you’re in, unlock the curation form by adding your card.

    3. Celebrate your individuality through a fun onboarding call and receive good news about your Kopi Date from our Kopi Artisans within 1-8 weeks.

    4. Head down for your first anonymous dating experience at our partnered concept spaces and share your adventures on your socials!

    5. Conclude your date with us through a quick review as the Kopi Date team curates your next (even better) adventure! ☕

  • It covers one Kopi Date Experience a month (curation and concierge services, the date venue booking, a complimentary beverage during the date, and the Kopi Date Experience Kit). You will just be responsible for turning up with your authentic self!

    Memberships are on a 12-credits basis (30% off) with exciting perks (Surprise activity dates, top priority curation, active personalised learning for improved curation, exclusive monthly personal growth content and white glove service).

    6-credits (15% off) and 3-credits are available without above perks.

    Why should I pay to date?
    Because you’re fast-tracking the experience. You can keep spending time figuring it out on your own or invest in something that gives you everything at once. Your time is valuable! Why spend years when you can move forward now?

  • If you’re facing technical issue with signing up, kindly use Incognito mode on desktop or mobile browser.

    WhatsApp us for assistance!

© KOPI DATE 2025. All rights reserved.