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For growth-minded individuals who want to date mindfully.

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Success Stories

Kopi Date’s
Healthy Dating System

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Kopi Date members are 92% more likely to find a healthy, long-term relationship.

Your accelerated path to a healthy, grounded relationship.

A hassle-free experience for working professionals

Kopi Date offers the easiest, most stress-free way to meet interesting people. Leave the work to us and take swiping off your to-do list 🚀

Celebrating individuality
We celebrate what makes you, you! We’ll use this information to help curate the best dates for you.

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A curated community
Every member is curated, screened and personally onboarded to ensure the best fit for our community.

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Focus on great conversations
Our experiences are designed to enable meaningful connection through conversation.

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Affordable
Explore new cafes and meet new people without breaking the bank.

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Save >10 hours a week on dating apps
Say goodbye to fake profiles, endless swiping & meaningless texting.

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Authenticity & intention
Our members value genuine connection over superficial exchanges.

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A guided journey
We’re available on WhatsApp and email for any membership or date enquiries.

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Simplicity and mindfulness
A casual setting that prioritises enjoyable journey over rigid destination.

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Personal Growth
Receive monthly personal growth content to learn more about yourself.

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Modern dating is broken.

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You go on date after date, but each one ends in disappointment, leaving you right where you started.

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Notice the Kopi Date difference

  • Disconnected and overwhelmed

  • Frustrated with dating apps

  • Boring, unfulfilling dates

Energised and connected

Clear, meaningful connections

Exciting, purposeful dates

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How it works

The Kopi Date Experience

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Join our curated community

Fill in the application form to begin your Kopi Date adventure. Join our thoughtfully-curated community, made up with incredible people who value meaningful connections, and seek great conversations.

We get to know you

Hop on a casual chat with us to as we get to know you and find out what makes you unique. It’s like a mini-documentary where we celebrate your individuality!

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We thoughtfully curate a date for you

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We curate the most amazing first date with great conversations and connection as an end goal in mind.

We organise everything

We partner with centrally-located cafe experiences you'll love. Plus you'll get an Experience Kit for thought-provoking questions to ask and a special itinerary planned so you have everything you need for your a great first date.

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A personalised experience

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Enjoyed the date? Let us know as we take into consideration of your feedback from your post-date review for a more personalised experience your upcoming adventures!

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Personalised Feedback

Gain actionable insights from your past Kopi Dates. Recognise your strengths and identify your blind spots. Join us for a Bar Chat* to track your progress and offer ongoing support.

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*Bar Chat is a casual way for our Delight Team to provide you with useful tips and feedback while also lending a listening ear to your experiences. We recently launched a Bar Chat for all new members at Kopi Date after their first Kopi Date Experience. We are also extending it to all current members too!

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Enjoy a holistic dating experience, from pre to post-date resources

MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES:

1:1 Offline Curated Dates
Meet like-minded individuals monthly

From $70/credit

Experience Kit
Crafted questions & activities


FREE

1:1 Support Sessions (Bar Chat)
Candid check-ins for support and personalised goals


FREE


Personalised Advice
Tailored dating tips and style advice

FREE

Growth Course
Lessons on relationship science and relationship psychology


FREE


Dating Logbook
Track and reflect on dating progress

FREE

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Kopi Dates in action 📸

Backed by resilient couples, designed for singles.

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It’s time to start meeting new people

Begin your healthy dating experience…

Kopi Date offers casual coffee dates, making it easy to expand your social circle and have authentic conversations.

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Growth-minded individuals

Who is Kopi Date for?

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If you're growth-minded and enjoy great conversations, Kopi Date is for you. Join a community seeking genuine connections.

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A safe environment

Kopi Date promotes a positive and safe environment for everyone to enjoy. Enjoy thoughtfully-curated coffee dates at our unique partner spaces.

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Not a dating app.
Not a matchmaking agency.

Kopi Date curates offline coffee dates built on growth & introspection for singles to enter healthy relationships.

Since 2018, we brought over 30,000 incredible people together on coffee dates.

2 cities Available in Singapore & Sydney

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50,000+ curated Kopi Dates

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4.8 ⭐️ Google Reviews ratings

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Your shortcut
to better dates

Join our growing community of social adventurers who have made over 22,832 real connections through Kopi Date.

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“I mean - WOW! I’m surprised how simple it is to get connected with interesting people. They do everything for you, you just have to show up and enjoy! KD is the best social membership ever."

Audrey W.
Project Manager

“The dating apps, bio-datas & shady dot coms were not for me! I’ve been on a couple of dates, and everything - from the onboarding session, ease of date coordination, and most importantly to the person sitting across me, has been a great experience!”

Min Yi G.,
Graphic Designer

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“Kopi Date is a safe and comfortable way to meet new people. It’s a unique opportunity to connect with someone new.”

Christian G.
Software Engineer

“My date was a great conversationalist and he was very open to share his experience and opinions! There weren’t any awkward silences. The community is discerning and well-curated.”

Nicolette T.
Data Analyst

The people you may meet

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‡ A UX consultant with an interest in hiking and hosting awesome dinner parties

‡ A teacher with a deep-seated passion for sustainability and social change

‡ An entrepreneur, lover of IPA beers and fiction novels

‡ A fresh Communications graduate who loves solo travelling and sci-fi films

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A social membership.
Endless great conversations.

Enjoy 35% OFF (Limited time offer ⏰)
From $70/ credit
U.P. $100/ credit


☆☆☆☆☆ Loved by 30,000+ members

Our curious, bold and diverse community of incredible people have a confident approach to life. They value meaningful connections, and are looking for great conversations.

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Curated
community

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No fake profiles. No endless swiping. Your personal details and picture are never shared with other members before your date, where you decide how much you'd like share.

Simple

The idea is to be yourself and get to know your date in an authentic setting. You can exchange numbers if you like, date for months, or simply move on to your next date. You're in control.

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Pressure-free

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How do we compare?

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We looked for dating solutions and found a system that was inefficient, and outdated. So we got to work creating an entirely new approach for the modern human 💛

FREE! Healthy Dating Guide

Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life.

Kopi Date’s Healthy Dating Guide is designed to help singles date healthily and build long-term, fulfilling relationships.

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FAQs

  • Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life. At Kopi Date, we believe in the importance of cultivating resilient relationships, starting with the dating process. Our focus on personal growth and fostering meaningful connections ensures that our members have the tools and resources they need to create long-term, fulfilling relationships.

    Kopi Date curates offline coffee dates built on growth and introspection for singles to enter healthy relationships.

  • Kopi Date is for the curious, the bold, the different. If you're someone who values open-mindedness, personal growth, and building genuine connections, we would love for you to join us at Kopi Date.

    We believe that a warm, slow-brewed conversation over a cup of coffee is the perfect setting to foster these types of connections.

    Of course, we understand that our community might not be for everyone. If you're not looking for just a casual quick fling, that's okay too. But if you're ready to explore a more fulfilling and genuine approach to dating, we would love to have you join our community at Kopi Date.

    So, come as you are and let's explore the world of authentic connections, one cup of coffee at a time.

    Learn more about Who is Kopi Date For?

  • It’s simple!

    1. Sign up to be part of the Kopi Date Community.

    2. Once you’re in, unlock the curation form by adding your card.

    3. Celebrate your individuality through a fun onboarding call and receive good news about your Kopi Date from our Kopi Artisans within 1-8 weeks.

    4. Head down for your first anonymous dating experience at our partnered concept spaces and share your adventures on your socials!

    5. Conclude your date with us through a quick review as the Kopi Date team curates your next (even better) adventure! ☕

  • Yes, Kopi Date is a paid service. Our mission to help our members succeed in relationships and our paid service ensures no compromises on quality- that people who join us are looking for the same thing too!

    The membership starts from $70/credit.

    It covers one Kopi Date Experience a month (curation and concierge services, the date venue booking, a complimentary beverage during the date, and the Kopi Date Experience Kit). You will just be responsible for turning up with your authentic self!

    Memberships are on a 12-credits basis (35% off) with exciting perks (Surprise activity dates, top priority curation, active personalised learning for improved curation, exclusive monthly personal growth content and white glove service).

    6-credits (15% off) and 3-credits are available without above perks.

    Why should I pay to date?
    Because you’re fast-tracking the experience. You can keep spending time figuring it out on your own or invest in something that gives you everything at once. Your time is valuable! Why spend years when you can move forward now?

  • At Kopi Date, we encourage our community to embark on their dates with an open mind and a great setting to have wonderful conversations. Tossing your checklist can help you open up to meeting people with characteristics that you might surprisingly vibe with - and qualities that can inspire long-term relationships such as loyalty, kindness, emotional stability, good communication and a growth mindset!

    Kopi Date encourages members to approach each date with an open mind. After all, connections often develop in places we don’t expect.

    Having said that, we do take into account your comments during the ‘Concluding-the-Date Review' to create a more personalised experience (it’ll be a great place to let us know on how you can have better experiences). However, please reach out to us if you have any absolute limits!

  • If you’re facing technical issue with signing up, kindly use Incognito mode on desktop or mobile browser.

    WhatsApp us for assistance!

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