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A safe haven where healthy connections grow.
Because we’re with you for the long run.

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Success Stories

Kopi Date’s
Healthy Dating System

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Dating is broken.
And you wont find
“The One”.

In today’s world, finding genuine connections seems more like a myth. We gave modern dating a shot, but it's just not cutting it.

So we got to work.

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The secret behind every successful relationship is built on deeper understanding and mutual respect.

This is your sanctuary. Success for everyone, built to last.

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Notice the Kopi Date difference

  • Disconnected and overwhelmed

  • Frustrated with dating apps

  • Boring, unfulfilling dates

Energised and connected

Clear, meaningful connections

Exciting, purposeful dates

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Experience guaranteed success

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CHALLENGE KOPI DATE

Find connections.

“The things I'm learning personally about dating is how to be myself on the date. I think Kopi Date helps me do that because I have zero pre-conceived notions about the date.”

Audrey W.
Project Manager

And make it last.

“To me, I learn about myself a little bit more after each date. It’s a good reminder on how I can reprogram my belief system and help me find success in the long run.”

Nicolette T.
Data Analyst

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“Yes, I met interesting people, and yes, I went on memorable dates. At the core of the experience, it was my personal journey of growth. The platform promised success, and it delivered”

Christian G.
Software Engineer

Success should be sustainable.
Join others in finding it.

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Kopi Date members are 92% more likely to find a healthy, long-term relationship.

Your accelerated path to a healthy, grounded relationship.

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Growth-minded dating

As a unique fusion of dating and relationship support, Kopi Date empowers your journey towards long-term fulfilling relationships.

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30,000 singles have nurtured meaningful connections since 2018

2 cities Available in Singapore & Sydney

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50,000+ curated Kopi Dates

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4.8 ⭐️ Google Reviews ratings

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For the future you, take the first step towards a love that lasts.

SECURE MY FUTURE

How Kopi Date works

  • Join our curated community

    We focus on you.

    Hop on a casual onboarding session, as we welcome you, get to know you, and find out what makes you unique!

  • Enjoy a personalised experience

    Skip the swiping, skip the texting.

    Go on curated dates focused on great conversations & connections. Gain actionable insights, recognise your strengths, and identify your blind spots to build great relationships.

A guided approach towards long-term fulfilling relationships

Personalised Dates
We celebrate what makes you, you! We’ll use this information to help curate the best dates for you.

Kopi Date offers the easiest, most stress-free way to meet interesting people and foster personal growth.

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A curated community
Every member is curated, screened and personally onboarded to ensure the best fit for our community.

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Focus on great conversations
Our experiences are designed to enable meaningful connection through conversation.

Affordable
Explore new cafes and meet new people without breaking the bank.

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Save >10 hours a week on dating apps
Say goodbye to fake profiles, endless swiping & meaningless texting.

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Authenticity & intention
Our members value genuine connection over superficial exchanges.

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A guided journey
We’re available on WhatsApp and email for any membership or date enquiries.

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Simplicity and mindfulness
A casual setting that prioritises enjoyable journey over rigid destination.

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Personal Growth
Receive monthly personal growth content to learn more about yourself.

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Kopi Dates in action 📸

Backed by resilient couples, designed for singles.

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A social membership.
Endless great conversations.

Enjoy 30% OFF (Limited time offer ⏰)
From $70/ credit
U.P. $100/ credit


☆☆☆☆☆ Loved by 30,000+ members

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Our curious, bold and diverse community of incredible people have a confident approach to life. They value meaningful connections, and are looking for great conversations.

A growth-minded
community

No fake profiles. No endless swiping. Your personal details and picture are never shared with other members before your date, where you decide how much you'd like share.

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Simplicity

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Pressure-free

The idea is to be yourself and get to know your date in an authentic setting. You can exchange numbers if you like, date for months, or simply move on to your next date. You're in control.

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The people you may meet

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‡ A UX consultant with an interest in hiking and hosting awesome dinner parties

‡ A teacher with a deep-seated passion for sustainability and social change

‡ An entrepreneur, lover of IPA beers and fiction novels

‡ A fresh Communications graduate who loves solo travelling and sci-fi films

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A safe environment

Kopi Date promotes a positive and safe environment for everyone to date.

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How do we compare?

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We looked for dating solutions and found a system that was inefficient, and outdated. So we got to work creating an entirely new approach for the modern human 💛

FREE! Healthy Dating Guide

Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life.

Our Healthy Dating Guide is designed to help singles date healthily and build long-term, fulfilling relationships.

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FAQs

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  • Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life. At Kopi Date, we believe in the importance of cultivating resilient relationships, starting with the dating process. Our focus on personal growth and fostering meaningful connections ensures that our members have the tools and resources they need to create long-term, fulfilling relationships.

    Kopi Date curates offline coffee dates built on growth and introspection for singles to enter healthy relationships.

  • Kopi Date is for the curious, the bold, the different. If you're someone who values open-mindedness, personal growth, and building genuine connections, we would love for you to join us at Kopi Date.

    We believe that a warm, slow-brewed conversation over a cup of coffee is the perfect setting to foster these types of connections.

    Of course, we understand that our community might not be for everyone. If you're not looking for just a casual quick fling, that's okay too. But if you're ready to explore a more fulfilling and genuine approach to dating, we would love to have you join our community at Kopi Date.

    So, come as you are and let's explore the world of authentic connections, one cup of coffee at a time.

    Learn more about Who is Kopi Date For?

  • It’s simple!

    1. Sign up to be part of the Kopi Date Community.

    2. Once you’re in, unlock the curation form by adding your card.

    3. Celebrate your individuality through a fun onboarding call and receive good news about your Kopi Date from our Kopi Artisans within 1-8 weeks.

    4. Head down for your first anonymous dating experience at our partnered concept spaces and share your adventures on your socials!

    5. Conclude your date with us through a quick review as the Kopi Date team curates your next (even better) adventure! ☕

  • Yes, Kopi Date is a paid service. Our mission to help our members succeed in relationships and our paid service ensures no compromises on quality- that people who join us are looking for the same thing too!

    The membership starts from $70/credit.

    It covers one Kopi Date Experience a month (curation and concierge services, the date venue booking, a complimentary beverage during the date, and the Kopi Date Experience Kit). You will just be responsible for turning up with your authentic self!

    Memberships are on a 12-credits basis (30% off) with exciting perks (Surprise activity dates, top priority curation, active personalised learning for improved curation, exclusive monthly personal growth content and white glove service).

    6-credits (15% off) and 3-credits are available without above perks.

    Why should I pay to date?
    Because you’re fast-tracking the experience. You can keep spending time figuring it out on your own or invest in something that gives you everything at once. Your time is valuable! Why spend years when you can move forward now?

  • At Kopi Date, we encourage our community to embark on their dates with an open mind and a great setting to have wonderful conversations. Tossing your checklist can help you open up to meeting people with characteristics that you might surprisingly vibe with - and qualities that can inspire long-term relationships such as loyalty, kindness, emotional stability, good communication and a growth mindset!

    Kopi Date encourages members to approach each date with an open mind. After all, connections often develop in places we don’t expect.

    Having said that, we do take into account your comments during the 'Concluding-the-Date Review' to create a more personalised experience (it’ll be a great place to let us know on how you can have better experiences). However, please reach out to us if you have any absolute limits!

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    WhatsApp us for assistance!

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