Forget everything you know about dating

Dating should be fuss-free, schedule-friendly and affordable.

Kopi Date is a social membership that helps you meet new people, develop skillsets, and cultivate your individuality with the help of science-backed methods.
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Your accelerated path to
successful relationships

It starts with you.

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You are in control. The essence of successful dating lies in fostering the right “tools” through introspection and self-awareness.

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Break the cycle.

Explore meaningful connections with like-minded people through curated dating experiences. Less mind games, more genuine connections.

Forge the now,
forge the future

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Gain from post-date feedback, personalised advice, and individual Bar Chat sessions.

Singapore's top dating platform, backed by happy couples

Kopi Date offers the easiest, most stress-free way to meet interesting people. Leave the work to us and take swiping off your to-do list 🚀

Celebrating individuality
We celebrate what makes you, you! We’ll use this information to help curate the best dates for you.

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A curated community
Every member is curated, screened and personally onboarded to ensure the best fit for our community.

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Focus on great conversations
Our experiences are designed to enable meaningful connection through conversation.

Affordable
Explore new cafes and meet new people without breaking the bank.

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Save >10 hours a week on dating apps
Say goodbye to fake profiles, endless swiping & meaningless texting.

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Authenticity & intention
Our members value genuine connection over superficial exchanges.

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A guided journey
We give personalised advice, and continuous support through email and Whatsapp to help you succeed.

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Simplicity and mindfulness
A casual setting that prioritises enjoyable journey over rigid destination.

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Personal Growth
Receive monthly personal growth content to learn more about yourself.

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How it works

The Kopi Date Experience

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Join our curated community

Fill in the application form to begin your Kopi Date adventure. Join our thoughtfully-curated community, made up with incredible people who value meaningful connections, and seek great conversations.

We get to know you

Hop on a casual chat with us to as we get to know you and find out what makes you unique. It’s like a mini-documentary where we celebrate your individuality!

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We thoughtfully curate a date for you

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We curate the most amazing first date with great conversations and connection as an end goal in mind.

We organise everything

We partner with centrally-located cafe experiences you'll love. Plus you'll get an Experience Kit for thought-provoking questions to ask and a special itinerary planned so you have everything you need for your a great first date.

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A personalised experience

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Enjoyed the date? Let us know as we take into consideration of your feedback from your post-date review for a more personalised experience your upcoming adventures!

Personalised Feedback

Gain actionable insights from your past Kopi Dates. Recognise your strengths and identify your blind spots. Join us for a Bar Chat* to track your progress and offer ongoing support.

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*Bar Chat is a casual way for our Delight Team to provide you with useful tips and feedback while also lending a listening ear to your experiences. We recently launched a Bar Chat for all new members at Kopi Date after their first Kopi Date Experience. We are also extending it to all current members too!

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Your shortcut
to better dates

Join our growing community of social adventurers who have made over 22,832 real connections through Kopi Date.

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“I mean - WOW! I’m surprised how simple it is to get connected with interesting people. They do everything for you, you just have to show up and enjoy! KD is the best social membership ever."

Audrey W.
Project Manager

“The dating apps, bio-datas & shady dot coms were not for me! I’ve been on a couple of dates, and everything - from the onboarding session, ease of date coordination, and most importantly to the person sitting across me, has been a great experience!”

Min Yi G.,
Graphic Designer

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“Kopi Date is a safe and comfortable way to meet new people. It’s a unique opportunity to connect with someone new.”

Christian G.
Software Engineer

“My date was a great conversationalist and he was very open to share his experience and opinions! There weren’t any awkward silences. The community is discerning and well-curated.”

Nicolette T.
Data Analyst

Is Kopi Date for me?

Join our intentional dating community to connect with like-minded individuals

It's PERFECT for you if:

✅ You believe that healthy relationships are essential to a fulfilling life.

✅ You appreciate depth and authenticity in conversations. If you're someone who values engaging in genuine conversations over surface-level chatter, you'll feel right at home in our community.

✅ You value personal growth adopt a growth-mindset.

It's NOT for you if:

❌ You expect a magic pill. True connections take time and a willingness to put yourself out there, engage in meaningful conversations, and be open to the possibilities that may arise. We encourage our members to approach dating as a journey of self-discovery and exploration.

❌ You adopt a fixed mindset towards life and are resistant to personal growth and self-discovery.

The most affordable & thoughtful dating experience

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We looked for dating solutions and found a system that was inefficient, and outdated. So we got to work creating an entirely new approach for the modern human.

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It’s the meeting of minds

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Adventurer
12 Credit at 30% OFF
$70/ credit

  • (Best Curation) Optimised for Second Dates, Priority Curation

  • (Best Personal Growth) Personalised Advice. Growth Series. Bar Chat.

  • (Best Flexibility) Indefinite Pausing. No expiry on date credits. Transferrable credits.


Most value & savings

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Escapade
6 Credit
$89/ credit

  • (Personal Growth) Growth Series.

  • (Flexibility) Up to 4 months of pausing.


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Explorer
3 Credit
$115/ credit

  • Without perks

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Not a dating app.
Not a matchmaking agency.

Kopi Date is a conversation-centred first date experience for singles. Since 2018, we brought over 10,000 incredible people together on coffee dates.

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2 cities Available in Singapore & Sydney

30,000+ curated Kopi Dates

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4.8 ⭐️ Google Reviews ratings

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A safe space to meet new people

A safe environment

Kopi Date promotes a positive and safe environment for everyone to enjoy. Enjoy thoughtfully-curated coffee dates at our unique partner spaces.

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FAQs

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  • Kopi Date was founded on the idea of change. Our idea is to humanise connections in an overly digitised world. We want to create the most authentic offline dating experience for singles; a foundation for meaningful long-term relationships.

  • Kopi Date is for the curious, the bold, the different. If you're someone who values open-mindedness, personal growth, and building genuine connections, we would love for you to join us at Kopi Date.

    We believe that a warm, slow-brewed conversation over a cup of coffee is the perfect setting to foster these types of connections.

    Of course, we understand that our community might not be for everyone. If you're not looking for just a casual quick fling, that's okay too. But if you're ready to explore a more fulfilling and genuine approach to dating, we would love to have you join our community at Kopi Date.

    So, come as you are and let's explore the world of authentic connections, one cup of coffee at a time.

    Learn more about Who is Kopi Date For?

  • It’s simple!

    1. Sign up to be part of the Kopi Date Community.

    2. Once you’re in, unlock the curation form by adding your card.

    3. Celebrate your individuality through a fun onboarding call and receive good news about your Kopi Date from our Kopi Artisans within 1-8 weeks.

    4. Head down for your first anonymous dating experience at our partnered concept spaces and share your adventures on your socials!

    5. Conclude your date with us through a quick review as the Kopi Date team curates your next (even better) adventure! ☕

  • It covers one Kopi Date Experience a month (curation and concierge services, the date venue booking, a complimentary beverage during the date, and the Kopi Date Experience Kit). You will just be responsible for turning up with your authentic self!

    Memberships are on a 12-credits basis (30% off) with exciting perks (Surprise activity dates, top priority curation, active personalised learning for improved curation, exclusive monthly personal growth content and white glove service).

    ✔️ Curation can be paused at any time (travelling/ getting to know past dates)

    ✔️ No expiry on date credits

    ✔️ Credits are transferable to friends

    ✔️ Growth Series and Personalised Advice

    6 Credit (15% off) and 3 Credit Memberships are available without perks.

    Why should I pay to date?
    Because you’re fast-tracking the experience. You can keep spending time figuring it out on your own or invest in something that gives you everything at once. Your time is valuable! Why spend years when you can move forward now?

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