Healthy dating for
Healthy relationships

For intentional, mindful singles.

A fuss-free approach that gets you to meet interesting people & connect deeply… Without you ever feeling lost or emotionally drained.

30,000+ singles joined Kopi Date for healthy relationships.

Modern Dating sets us up for failure.

You put yourself out there hoping for something real: swiping, meeting people, starting conversations.

But today’s dating culture makes that feel impossible.

Meeting people is hard enough.
Connections die before they even begin.
Conversations fizzle out without warning.

When you finally land a date,
it feels more like an interview than a real connection.

And if you do make it into a relationship,
conflicts arise, and it all ends in heartbreak.


We’re left with plenty of experiences,
but no real growth.

After enough trying, we’re back to the cycle of unfulfilling relationships.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.

Dating should be simple.

Dating is not hard…
It’s just that current dating solutions don’t help us with what actually matters.

To succeed, you’ll need to:

We need all three. But most of us are only good at one.

Most of us stop at meeting people and we don’t even do it well. Swiping, chatting, maybe a date or two… then what?

At Kopi Date, we make sure you hit them all. And do them well.

We think long-term.

Create the relationship
you deserve.

Everything you need, all in one place. The right people, the right resources, and a dating experience that actually works.

Your one stop solution.

From amazing first dates to post-date clarity and more.

How is Kopi Date different?
Here’s what our members say:

New success stories every week

The curated matches made the experience feel more intentional, and I appreciated how the process focused on deeper compatibility rather than just photos[…]like meeting someone through a mutual friend rather than a random app. It’s a perfect option for those who value quality over quantity in their dating journey

SS

Wow kopi date did a great job 😭 how did you know we’d get along. I like that he’s very grounded and intelligent

HS

This encounter has left me feeling excited and optimistic about the potential of this connection, and I’m very much looking forward to seeing him again to explore it further

S S T

Not a dating app.
Not a matchmaking agency.

Since 2018, we brought over 30,000 incredible people to a healthier dating landscape.

More than just dates
A network of systems that create conditions for success.

Focus on personal growth and self-awareness
Dating with the right perspective and a reframed mindset.

Connections over superficiality.
Personalised curation based on who you truly are. No algorithms.

Kopi Date members are 92% more likely to find a healthy, long-term relationship. ✨

This journey has provided me with the right opportunities to come out of my shell, develop my communication skills, and showcase my authentic self in a way I hadn't anticipated. It offers a unique approach to dating. -A.P.

One aspect that stands out is the development of my communication skills. It's important to me to take the time needed to build a strong foundation for a potential relationship. The best part is, there's no more swiping and instead, you get to engage with real individuals. - T.T.

I must admit, dating apps seemed like a time-consuming and effort-intensive venture. With Kopi Date, the process feels more natural, and I get to explore at my own pace. - K.Y.

Discover the success that comes with healthy dating.

Feel the Kopi Date difference

Enhanced connections

Greater self-understanding and mental clarity

Stronger emotional awareness

Increased relationship knowledge

A stronger foundation for healthy relationships

Higher chance of success:

Join our curated community

Fill in the application form and wait for the exciting news!

Once enrolled, join our complimentary onboarding session and meet a Kopi Artisan ☕️

Start your holistic dating experience 🌱

Apply now

Enjoy a holistic dating experience, from pre to post-date resources

MEMBERSHIP INCLUDES:

1:1 Offline Curated Dates
Meet like-minded individuals monthly

From $60/credit

Experience Kit
Crafted questions & activities


FREE

1:1 Support Sessions (Bar Chat)
Candid check-ins for support and personalised goals


FREE


Personalised Advice (+ Personal Styling)
Tailored dating tips and style advice

FREE

Growth Course
Lessons on relationship science and relationship psychology


FREE


Dating Logbook
Track and reflect on dating progress

FREE

Kopi Dates in action 📸

Backed by resilient couples, designed for singles.

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Intentional individuals

Who is Kopi Date for?

If you're mindful about how you build connections and in on the fun of discovering great experiences, Kopi Date is for you.

Join a community seeking genuine connections.

People worth meeting

‡ A UX consultant with an interest in hiking and hosting awesome dinner parties

‡ A teacher with a deep-seated passion for sustainability and social change

‡ An entrepreneur, lover of IPA beers and fiction novels

‡ A fresh Communications graduate who loves solo travelling and sci-fi films

A social membership.
Endless great conversations.

Enjoy 35% OFF (Limited time offer ⏰)
From $60/ credit
U.P. $90/ credit

☆☆☆☆☆ Loved by 30,000+ members

Our curious, bold and diverse community of incredible people have a confident approach to life. They value meaningful connections, and are looking for great conversations.

Curated
community

Simple

No fake profiles. No endless swiping. Your personal details and picture are never shared with other members before your date, where you decide how much you'd like share.

Pressure-free

The idea is to be yourself and get to know your date in an authentic setting. You can exchange numbers if you like, date for months, or simply move on to your next date. You're in control.

FAQs

  • Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life. At Kopi Date, we believe in the importance of cultivating resilient relationships, starting with the dating process. Our focus on personal growth and fostering meaningful connections ensures that our members have the tools and resources they need to create long-term, fulfilling relationships.

    Kopi Date curates offline coffee dates built on growth and introspection for singles to enter healthy relationships.

  • Kopi Date is for the curious, the bold, the different. If you're someone who values open-mindedness, personal growth, and building genuine connections, we would love for you to join us at Kopi Date.

    We believe that a warm, slow-brewed conversation over a cup of coffee is the perfect setting to foster these types of connections.

    Of course, we understand that our community might not be for everyone. If you're not looking for just a casual quick fling, that's okay too. But if you're ready to explore a more fulfilling and genuine approach to dating, we would love to have you join our community at Kopi Date.

    So, come as you are and let's explore the world of authentic connections, one cup of coffee at a time.

    Learn more about Who is Kopi Date For?

  • It’s simple!

    1. Sign up to be part of the Kopi Date Community.

    2. Once you’re in, unlock the curation form by adding your card.

    3. Celebrate your individuality through a fun onboarding call and receive good news about your Kopi Date from our Kopi Artisans within 1-8 weeks.

    4. Head down for your first anonymous dating experience at our partnered concept spaces and share your adventures on your socials!

    5. Conclude your date with us through a quick review as the Kopi Date team curates your next (even better) adventure! ☕

  • Yes, Kopi Date is a paid service. Our mission to help our members succeed in relationships and our paid service ensures no compromises on quality- that people who join us are looking for the same thing too!

    The membership starts from $60/credit.

    It covers one Kopi Date Experience a month (curation and concierge services, the date venue booking, a complimentary beverage during the date, and the Kopi Date Experience Kit). You will just be responsible for turning up with your authentic self!

    Memberships are on a 12-credits basis (35% off) with exciting perks (Surprise activity dates, top priority curation, active personalised learning for improved curation, exclusive monthly personal growth content and white glove service).

    6-credits (15% off) and 3-credits are available without above perks.

    Why should I pay to date?
    Because you’re fast-tracking the experience. You can keep spending time figuring it out on your own or invest in something that gives you everything at once. Your time is valuable! Why spend years when you can move forward now?

  • At Kopi Date, we encourage our community to embark on their dates with an open mind and a great setting to have wonderful conversations. Tossing your checklist can help you open up to meeting people with characteristics that you might surprisingly vibe with - and qualities that can inspire long-term relationships such as loyalty, kindness, emotional stability, good communication and a growth mindset!

    Kopi Date encourages members to approach each date with an open mind. After all, connections often develop in places we don’t expect.

    Having said that, we do take into account your comments during the ‘Concluding-the-Date Review' to create a more personalised experience (it’ll be a great place to let us know on how you can have better experiences). However, please reach out to us if you have any absolute limits!

  • If you’re facing technical issue with signing up, kindly use Incognito mode on desktop or mobile browser.

    WhatsApp us for assistance!

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