Dating for

Healthy, grounded relationships

START DATING

Meet amazing people & enjoy great conversations!

⏱️ WASTE NO TIME 📱 SKIP SWIPING & TEXTING

🎉 Kopi Date 
Success Stories

couplestestimonialkd-01.png
couplestestimonialkd-02.png
couplestestimonialkd-03.png
couplestestimonialkd-04.png
couplestestimonialkd-05.png
couplestestimonialkd-06.png

Kopi Date’s
Healthy Dating System

A graphic with the title 'Reverse-engineering great relationships for singles dating'. It features three sections: Exploration with an icon of three people, emphasizing meeting people in a healthy way; Clarity with a light bulb icon, emphasizing deep introspection for self-awareness; and Growth with a graph icon, emphasizing building strong relationship skills. The footer highlights key principles: intentional dating, growth-minded, fuss-free.
IMG_1605-ezgif.com-video-to-gif-converter 2.gif
shaunafaiz1-ezgif.com-video-to-gif-converter.gif
marcellajeffersonkdd.gif
valerieshawnkd.gif
nicolekopidatee.gif
dancevalerieshawn.gif

A hassle-free experience for working professionals

Kopi Date offers the easiest, most stress-free way to meet interesting people. Leave the work to us and take swiping off your to-do list 🚀

Celebrating individuality
We celebrate what makes you, you! We’ll use this information to help curate the best dates for you.

Line drawing of two hands clasped in a fist bump, with lines radiating outward to symbolize energy or celebration.
Gold and white checkmark seal icon on black background.

A curated community
Every member is curated, screened and personally onboarded to ensure the best fit for our community.

Focus on great conversations
Our experiences are designed to enable meaningful connection through conversation.

Two overlapping speech bubbles outlined in tan, one with three dots indicating conversation or dialogue.

Affordable
Explore new cafes and meet new people without breaking the bank.

Icon of a steaming cup of coffee or tea

Save >10 hours a week on dating apps
Say goodbye to fake profiles, endless swiping & meaningless texting.

An icon of an hourglass with a minimalist design in gold color.

Authenticity & intention
Our members value genuine connection over superficial exchanges.

Simple line drawing of a young plant with two leaves sprouting from the soil.

A guided journey
We’re available on WhatsApp and email for any membership or date enquiries.

Outline of a human head in profile with a heart shape inside the brain area.

Simplicity and mindfulness
A casual setting that prioritises enjoyable journey over rigid destination.

Golden icon of a light bulb with rays coming out, symbolizing an idea or innovation.

Personal Growth
Receive monthly personal growth content to learn more about yourself.

Icon of an open book with lines and a pen on the right side, in a gold color.
JOIN NOW

Modern dating is broken.

Infographic explaining the science of human balance, featuring a female gymnast in a balancing pose with a dotted pattern leotard, against a colorful background with various explanatory labels and segments.

You go on date after date, but each one ends in disappointment, leaving you right where you started.

Kopi Date members are 92% more likely to find a healthy, long-term relationship.

Your accelerated path to a healthy, grounded relationship.

Collage of two women; one is lying on a couch looking at her phone in a dimly lit room, the other is smiling, drinking coffee in a bright café.

Notice the Kopi Date difference

  • Disconnected and overwhelmed

  • Frustrated with dating apps

  • Boring, unfulfilling dates

✓ Energised and connected

✓ Clear, meaningful connections

✓ Exciting, purposeful dates

A graphic banner with a gold badge on the left that says 'Top Brand High Quality.' The text reads 'Singapore's top platform for a healthy dating experience' in a mix of black and gold font. The background is mostly white.
A man and woman sitting on a green sofa, talking and smiling, each holding a white mug, against a plain white wall.

How it works

The Kopi Date Experience

Hand holding a pink to-go coffee cup with a black lid and a label reading "KOPP DATE" against a pink background.
A young person with short curly hair, glasses, and earrings is sitting and smiling. They are wearing a denim jacket over a shirt with a pattern of desserts.

Join our curated community

Fill in the application form to begin your Kopi Date adventure. Join our thoughtfully-curated community, made up with incredible people who value meaningful connections, and seek great conversations.

We get to know you

Hop on a casual chat with us to as we get to know you and find out what makes you unique. It’s like a mini-documentary where we celebrate your individuality!

Laptop screen showing a video call with three women, one smiling, with a background of confetti and a personalized welcome message.

We thoughtfully curate a date for you

A man and a woman standing on a street with white residential buildings, trees, and bollards visible in the background. The man is on the left side, partially visible, wearing a white shirt. The woman on the right side has reddish hair and is partially shown.

We curate the most amazing first date with great conversations and connection as an end goal in mind.

We organise everything

We partner with centrally-located cafe experiences you'll love. Plus you'll get an Experience Kit for thought-provoking questions to ask and a special itinerary planned so you have everything you need for your a great first date.

A man and woman wearing face masks standing close together inside a building with a glass ceiling and large white columns.

A personalised experience

Snacks on store shelves including various yogurt cups, pudding cups, and packaged desserts.

Enjoyed the date? Let us know as we take into consideration of your feedback from your post-date review for a more personalised experience your upcoming adventures!

A screenshot of a video call showing a woman with long dark hair smiling on the left and a man with short hair in front of a bookshelf on the right.

Personalised Feedback

Gain actionable insights from your past Kopi Dates. Recognise your strengths and identify your blind spots. Join us for a Bar Chat* to track your progress and offer ongoing support.

GET STARTED

*Bar Chat is a casual way for our Delight Team to provide you with useful tips and feedback while also lending a listening ear to your experiences. We recently launched a Bar Chat for all new members at Kopi Date after their first Kopi Date Experience. We are also extending it to all current members too!

Kopi Dates in action 📸

Backed by resilient couples, designed for singles.

@kopidate Join Shawn & Valerie on their Kopi Date ❤️ Kopi Date is a social platform, where singles have the chance to meet new people and form rich and deep connections. Sign up now and enjoy thoughtfully-curated 1:1 dates ✨ #kopidate #datinginsingapore #notadatingapp #intentionaldating ♬ original sound - Kopi Date
@kopidate Join Joylene & Ryan on their Kopi Date ❤️ Kopi Date is a singles' dating platform, paving the way for healthy, grounded relationships. Sign up now and enjoy thoughtfully-curated 1:1 dates ✨ #kopidate #datinginsingapore #notadatingapp #intentionaldating ♬ original sound - Kopi Date
@kopidate Dealing with the mind games of dating apps can be exhausting, right? 😖 At Kopi Date, we’re all about personal growth and real connections—no swiping required. Tag along with Riqqah as a simple coffee date turns into a moment of self-discovery and fresh insights into building strong, lasting relationships 💛 #kopidate #datinginsingapore #notadatingapp ♬ original sound - Kopi Date
A woman with long dark hair wearing a striped top and blue jeans sitting at a table in a cafe, smiling and looking at a drink, while a person across from her, wearing a white shirt, holds a tablet or book.

It’s time to start meeting new people

Begin your healthy dating experience…

Kopi Date offers casual coffee dates, making it easy to expand your social circle and have authentic conversations.

Sign up

Growth-minded individuals

Who is Kopi Date for?

A young woman with long dark hair wearing a striped tank top and overalls, smiling and covering her mouth with her hand, sitting at a table in a cafe. There are two iced coffee drinks with straws on the table.

If you're growth-minded and enjoy great conversations, Kopi Date is for you. Join a community seeking genuine connections.

Get started

A safe environment

Kopi Date promotes a positive and safe environment for everyone to enjoy. Enjoy thoughtfully-curated coffee dates at our unique partner spaces.

Sign up
A man and a woman sitting at a table in a café, each holding a drink with a straw, engaging in conversation.

Not a dating app.
Not a matchmaking agency.

Kopi Date curates offline coffee dates built on growth & introspection for singles to enter healthy relationships.

Since 2018, we brought over 30,000 incredible people together on coffee dates.

2 cities Available in Singapore & Sydney

Outline drawing of a city skyline with tall buildings and water at the bottom.

50,000+ curated Kopi Dates

Illustration of a coffee machine with two cups underneath, showing coffee being dispensed.

4.8 ⭐️ Google Reviews ratings

Three-star review icon with a thumbs-up symbol below.
A young woman with long brown hair, wearing a light-colored shirt, standing in front of a yellow and green blurred background.
A young man with short black hair, wearing a black turtleneck, an olive green jacket, beige pants, and a black backpack, stands outdoors listening to music through white earphones and holds a closed laptop.

Your shortcut
to better dates

Join our growing community of social adventurers who have made over 22,832 real connections through Kopi Date.

A woman and a man sitting across from each other at a table in a modern cafe during the daytime, with large windows and outdoor greenery visible in the background.
A white coffee cup with espresso and latte art on top, placed on a matching saucer on a wooden table.
Close-up of a restaurant menu on a table with a beverage to the side.

“I mean - WOW! I’m surprised how simple it is to get connected with interesting people. They do everything for you, you just have to show up and enjoy! KD is the best social membership ever."

Audrey W.
Project Manager

“The dating apps, bio-datas & shady dot coms were not for me! I’ve been on a couple of dates, and everything - from the onboarding session, ease of date coordination, and most importantly to the person sitting across me, has been a great experience!”

Min Yi G.,
Graphic Designer

A glass storefront with the logo of a butterfly called 'Bents Butterflies' on it; the reflection of trees and outdoor seating is visible, and a person is standing inside; a caption at the bottom says 'I'm here!!!'.

“Kopi Date is a safe and comfortable way to meet new people. It’s a unique opportunity to connect with someone new.”

Christian G.
Software Engineer

“My date was a great conversationalist and he was very open to share his experience and opinions! There weren’t any awkward silences. The community is discerning and well-curated.”

Nicolette T.
Data Analyst

The people you may meet

Collage of seven black and white photos featuring diverse young adults, some smiling, some looking serious, with various backgrounds including outdoor settings, indoor spaces, and a bookshelf, capturing candid and posed expressions.

‡ A UX consultant with an interest in hiking and hosting awesome dinner parties

‡ A teacher with a deep-seated passion for sustainability and social change

‡ An entrepreneur, lover of IPA beers and fiction novels

‡ A fresh Communications graduate who loves solo travelling and sci-fi films

JOIN KOPI DATE
A promotional card for The Kopi Date Membership sitting on a concrete block next to two coffee cups with abstract sun and leaf illustrations, placed on a beige surface.

A social membership.
Endless great conversations.

Enjoy 30% OFF (Limited time offer ⏰)
From $70/ credit
U.P. $100/ credit

☆☆☆☆☆ Loved by 10,000+ members

Our curious, bold and diverse community of incredible people have a confident approach to life. They value meaningful connections, and are looking for great conversations.

A woman performing a dance leap with arms and legs extended, wearing a leopard print costume, against a purple starburst background.

Curated
community

A butterfly perched on the edge of a white cup filled with dark coffee, placed on a matching saucer against a black background.

Simple

No fake profiles. No endless swiping. Your personal details and picture are never shared with other members before your date, where you decide how much you'd like share.

A man and woman dancing together, with the man in a suit and the woman in a dress, dancing passionately.

Pressure-free

The idea is to be yourself and get to know your date in an authentic setting. You can exchange numbers if you like, date for months, or simply move on to your next date. You're in control.

JOIN KOPI DATE
A collection of logos from various companies and publications, including Google, The Straits Times, CNA, Vulcan Post, The Business Times, Her World, Tech in Asia, Accelerating Asia, and a Chinese publication.

How do we compare?

Comparison chart of online dating apps, Kopi Date, and matchmaking agencies, including pricing, features, target audience, community quality, experience, motivation, and support. Contains a small photo of two people talking over coffee, with a note about Singapore's healthy dating experience and website.

We looked for dating solutions and found a system that was inefficient, and outdated. So we got to work creating an entirely new approach for the modern human 💛

FREE! Healthy Dating Guide

Silhouette of a couple holding hands, leaning back against a cityscape at night with a starry sky and tall buildings in the background, overlaid with text about a free guide on how to choose a partner.

Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life.

Kopi Date’s Healthy Dating Guide is designed to help singles date healthily and build long-term, fulfilling relationships.

DOWNLOAD GUIDE

FAQs

A woman in a leopard print leotard performing a gymnastics leap.

  • Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life. At Kopi Date, we believe in the importance of cultivating resilient relationships, starting with the dating process. Our focus on personal growth and fostering meaningful connections ensures that our members have the tools and resources they need to create long-term, fulfilling relationships.

    Kopi Date curates offline coffee dates built on growth and introspection for singles to enter healthy relationships.

  • Kopi Date is for the curious, the bold, the different. If you're someone who values open-mindedness, personal growth, and building genuine connections, we would love for you to join us at Kopi Date.

    We believe that a warm, slow-brewed conversation over a cup of coffee is the perfect setting to foster these types of connections.

    Of course, we understand that our community might not be for everyone. If you're not looking for just a casual quick fling, that's okay too. But if you're ready to explore a more fulfilling and genuine approach to dating, we would love to have you join our community at Kopi Date.

    So, come as you are and let's explore the world of authentic connections, one cup of coffee at a time.

    Learn more about Who is Kopi Date For?

  • It’s simple!

    1. Sign up to be part of the Kopi Date Community.

    2. Once you’re in, unlock the curation form by adding your card.

    3. Celebrate your individuality through a fun onboarding call and receive good news about your Kopi Date from our Kopi Artisans within 1-8 weeks.

    4. Head down for your first anonymous dating experience at our partnered concept spaces and share your adventures on your socials!

    5. Conclude your date with us through a quick review as the Kopi Date team curates your next (even better) adventure! ☕

  • It covers one Kopi Date Experience a month (curation and concierge services, the date venue booking, a complimentary beverage during the date, and the Kopi Date Experience Kit). You will just be responsible for turning up with your authentic self!

    Memberships are on a 12-credits basis (39% off) with exciting perks (Surprise activity dates, top priority curation, active personalised learning for improved curation, exclusive monthly personal growth content and white glove service).

    6-credits (22% off) and 3-credits are available without above perks.

    Why should I pay to date?
    Because you’re fast-tracking the experience. You can keep spending time figuring it out on your own or invest in something that gives you everything at once. Your time is valuable! Why spend years when you can move forward now?

  • If you’re facing technical issue with signing up, kindly use Incognito mode on desktop or mobile browser.

    WhatsApp us for assistance!

© KOPI DATE 2025. All rights reserved.