The shortest path from single to a healthy relationship
No dating frustrations,
No toxic relationships.
The shortest path from single to
a healthy relationship.
No dating frustrations | No toxic relationships
WHAT IS A KOPI DATE?
Not a dating app.
Not a matchmaking agency.
(Nor some mass dating event)
Curated coffee dates with real guidance for singles to build healthy relationships.
Modern Dating sets us up for failure.
You put yourself out there hoping for something real: swiping, meeting people, starting conversations.
But today’s dating culture makes that feel impossible.
Meeting people is hard enough.
Conversations fizzle out without warning.
Connections die before they even begin.
When you finally land a date,
it feels more like an interview than a real connection.
And if you do make it into a relationship,
conflicts arise, and it all ends in a drawn-out heartbreak.
We’re left with plenty of experiences,
but no real growth.
After enough trying, we’re back to the cycle of unfulfilling relationships.
But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Dating should be…
.
.
Simple.
This is how you go from single to a healthy relationship.
A no-nonsense path.
Step 1:
Know exactly what you’re getting into
Get clear on what a healthy relationship actually takes.
Step 2: Go on a curated coffee (Kopi) date
Meet someone thoughtfully curated, in real life, over coffee.
Step 3:
Be curious, tuck your checklist, embrace human connections.
Let conversations flow, and see where connection takes you.
Step 4:
Have fun. Let your hair down, flirt, make mistakes, feel nervous.
Have courage to say: “I would love to see you again.”
Step 5:
Go on a second, third, fourth date.
Depth takes time—lean in and build from where you left off.
Step 6:
Discover new emotional connections.
Share stories, values, and the quiet parts of yourself.
Step 7:
Discover new differences.
Notice the gaps, not as red flags—but as reality.
Step 8:
Communicate & overcome differences.
Learn how to talk about the hard stuff without walking away.
Step 9:
Choose to commit.
Not a fairy tale moment, but a conscious decision to grow together.
Step 10:
Build your couples identity.
Journey: Love, fight and grow… Together.
This is how you go from single to a healthy relationship.
A no-nonsense path.
Step 1:
Know exactly what you’re getting into
Get clear on what a healthy relationship actually takes.
Step 2: Go on a curated coffee (Kopi) date
Meet someone thoughtfully curated, in real life, over coffee.
Step 3:
Be curious, tuck your checklist, embrace human connections.
Let conversations flow, and see where connection takes you.
Step 4:
Have fun. Let your hair down, flirt, make mistakes, feel nervous.
Have courage to say: “I would love to see you again.”
Dating isn’t a test—it's a chance to be human and enjoy it.
Step 5:
Go on a second, third, fourth date.
Depth takes time—lean in and build from where you left off.
Step 6:
Discover new emotional connections.
Share stories, values, and the quiet parts of yourself.
Step 7:
Discover new differences.
Notice the gaps, not as red flags—but as reality.
Step 8:
Communicate & overcome differences.
Learn how to talk about the hard stuff without walking away.
Step 9:
Celebrate these differences.
Your relationship is stronger when it honours both of you.
Step 10:
Choose to commit.
Not a fairy tale moment, but a conscious decision to grow together.
Step 11:
Build your couples identity.
Journey: Love, fight and grow… Together.
You’re not just individuals anymore—write your story, your way.
This is how you go from single to a healthy relationship
A no-nonsense path.
.
.
.
Step 1: Know exactly what you’re getting into
Step 2: Go on a curated coffee (Kopi) date
Step 3: Be curious, tuck your checklist, embrace human connections.
Step 4: Have fun. Let your hair down, flirt, make mistakes, feel nervous.
Have courage to say:
"I would love to see you again.”
Step 5: Go on a second, third, fourth date.
Do something different.
See a court hearing,
People watch by the river,
Hike at the reservoirs
Step 6: Discover new emotional connections.
Step 7: Discover new differences
Step 8: Communicate and overcome differences.
Step 9: Celebrate these differences.
Step 10: Choose to commit.
Step 11: Build your couples identity.
Journey: Love, fight and grow…
Together.
No, this is hard work.
We’d be lying if we said:
“Dating and relationships are easy.”
So we built an all-in-one platform that has helped 30,000 singles — and you too!
SUCCESS STORIES
SUCCESS STORIES
THIS IS A PLACE FOR SUCCESS STORIES, 30,000 singles
We built a relationship platform for singles.
And it worked!
A world-class support team, who cares.
Rated 4.85/5 stars by current members.
Welcoming you with our one-of-a-kind onboarding experience:
The Kopi Date Brew
Our team’s goal is aligned with yours — to create more healthy, long-term relationships.
We do that by building a healthy relationship with you first.
Dating Simplified
Let the hard things fade in the background.
not sure how, where to start
endless swiping and texting
awkward conversations
first date logistics
past relationship baggage
overwhelming emotions, frustrations
lack of progress
lack of feedback or self-awareness
no clarity of goals
can’t meet the ‘right’ people
Kopi Date.
(A safe, guided dating journey)
How Kopi Date works
A simple 2 step process gets you to the most thoughtful and liberating experience ever. View handbook ↗
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The Kopi Date Brew
A one-of-a-kind onboarding to celebrate your story and design your journey.
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Coffee is served
Meet your Kopi Date and enjoy a great conversation over coffee.
Transparent Pricing
Healthy Dating should be for
everyone.
Typical matchmaking agency:
$3200 - $6300 (No guaranteed dates).
Kopi Date:
From $60 per date experience
(In memberships plans of 3,6,12).
Transparent pricing
Healthy Dating should be for
Everyone.
Typical Matchmaking agency:
$3200 - $6300 (no guaranteed dates)
Kopi Date:
From $60 per date experience,
(in memberships plans of 3,6,12)
This is how you go from single to a healthy relationship
A no-nonsense path
Step 2: Go on a curated coffee (Kopi) date
Step 3: Be curious, tuck your checklist, embrace human connections
Step 1: Know exactly what you’re getting into
Step 4: Have fun. Let your hair down, flirt, make mistakes, feel nervous. Have courage to say:
"I would love to see you again.”
Step 5: Go on a second date. Do something different;
See a court hearing,
People watch by the river,
Hike at the reservoirs
Step 6: Discover new emotional connections.
Step 7: Discover new differences
Step 8: Communicate and overcome differences.
Step 9: Celebrate differences.
Step 10: Choose to commit.
Step 11: Build your couples identity.
Journey: Love, fight, grow…
Together.
Simplify Dating
Let the hard things fade in the background.
not sure how, where to start
endless swiping and texting
awkward conversations
first date logistics
emotions, frustrations
lack of progress
lack of feedback or self-awareness
no clarity of goals
can’t meet the ‘right’ people
Kopi Date.
(Curated dates, with Real Guidance)
Boost your Journey
Feel confidence and clarity at your fingertips.
Clarity, Guidance
and 1:1 Human support
How to connect emotionally on a date
How to reject someone?
How to decide to go on a second date
How to deal with rejections
Dealing with insecurity
Past circumstances
Being a better date
Lack of communication
How is Kopi Date different?
Here’s what our members say:
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Beatrix & Jeremy
I think in today’s dating scene where everyone is so focused on finding the “one true love” (yikes), Kopi Date is keeping it real and allowing for curiosity.
Kopi Date excels in providing a space for good conversations to happen!
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Kathy & Jun Hui
Kopi Date has helped to improve my views on relationships and dating as a whole, providing me with various perspectives that helped me reflect better on myself.
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Iman & Alexandra
Hadn’t had much success with other platforms despite friends sharing their success stories using online dating apps. Kopi Date does curation and that helps in the whole process as there’s a [consideration] of interests and personalities.
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Zhen Yu & Jolene
To know someone with zero expectations going in; without texting or having in-depth knowledge about the other party, allows you to go in without any judgment.
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Zach & Serena
Kudos and shout out to the awesome KD team for their dedication to ensure a pleasant curation and user experience. Absolutely no regrets!
A conversation with Jolene & Zhen Yu
We give you an insight into members of the Kopi Date community and the wonderful connections they have formed. 🤎 Let us introduce you Jolene and Zhen Yu whose friendship blossomed into a relationship. We really can’t get enough of their chemistry and stories, that in our eyes are just the right amount of creepy 👀
So now we’re having a cuppa to find out more about their Kopi Date story ☕
Simplify Dating
Let the hard things magically fade in the background.
i’m not sure how to get started
i’m done swiping, this is not going anywhr
Hand-picked* coffee dates
sh*t this date is awkward
Thoughtful date-day Adventure kits
where’s cool enough for a first date?
Worried about outcome
god why is there no progress?
I have no idea what’s going on
One-of-a-kind onboarding and resources
Simply turn up, focus on being a great human
Real Guidance with world-class support
Personalised roadmap for guaranteed progress
Who is Kopi Date for?
This is not a place for
This is for…
Jack who has spent most of his time focusing on his career and working on himself, but
or for Jane who has gotten out of
“Forget swiping, this S'pore startup revives old school dating with conversations over coffee”
“Kopi Date hits a sweet spot”
A brave new world of dating
Say goodbye to meaningless texting. Behold, authentic conversations await.
Protect your
future relationship.
We think long-term.
We nurture your dating journey through self-discovery and growth.
Let the great conversations roll!
Kopi Date offers the easiest, most stress-free way to meet interesting people. Leave the work to us and take swiping off your to-do list.
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Save >10 hours a week from meaningless texting and swiping
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Authenticity through face to face interactions
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Receive personal growth content through our membership program
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Go on affordable dates more often
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Engage in conversations and fun activities
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Discover unique cafes around Singapore
Have you wondered…
What is your dating personality type?
Homemade Brew is an initiative to go beyond the superficiality and reveal how dating is often a layered process of getting to know the ins and outs of a person. We believe that within every individual is a unique story waiting to be shared and to be discovered.
Rethinking dating
We looked for dating solutions and found a system that was inefficient, and outdated. So we got to work creating an entirely new approach for the modern human.
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Kopi Date provides an uncomplicated journey, with just one-third the steps of a dating app.
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Get inspired by our personal growth content through our membership program.
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Dating has always been impulse-driven. We empower our members to approach dating intentionally.
Kopi Date is for the curious, the bold, the different. You, who are ready to get out in the world and in the process, learn more about yourself.
Let’s humanise dating!
Whether you'd like to expand your social circle or step out of your comfort zone, Kopi Date offers exciting ways to meet interesting people in the most authentic setting.
Adventure awaits!
Embrace adventures
& new beginnings
“It is in our nature to explore, to reach out into the unknown. The only true failure would be not to explore at all.”
ERNEST SHACKLETON
FREE! Healthy Dating Guide
Healthy relationships are essential for a fulfilling life.
Kopi Date’s Healthy Dating Guide is designed to help singles date healthily and build long-term, fulfilling relationships.